Do you wanna love the orphans around you? Ever wonder how you can help even if you're not at the place to open your for foster care? Do you know a foster family? Wanna know how you can help them?
We have only been "open" as a foster home for 3 and 1/2 weeks. We have already had 5 different children placed with us in that time. I'm slowly learning things to help this new adventure flow more easily. I'm also learning that, in a lot of ways, there's no way to prepare for most things. No one can give you an exact scenario of what to get ready for or what the best way is to love a child who it hurting. I wanted to share a few things that we have been blessed by either by accident or by amazing friends we are surrounded by.
When a child comes into care, they often have nothing with them. The rush to get them to safety and or within healthy amounts of supervision is more important than grabbing their essentials much less their wardrobe or favorite toy. If they do happen to grab something it comes often comes in a trashbag OR a DHS worker hurries to buy them items and those come in bags from the store. These kids might be terrified, sad, angry, but they will all most likely be a bit confused.
There are some practical items that can help children in care:
BACKPACKS/Duffle Bags
Providing backpacks or duffle bags to care belongings in can help these children feel more stable and dignified from the start.
Toothbrushes/Paste
Offering toothbrushes that can be given to each child can make a child feel as though they were prepared-for and special as well as provide hygiene.
Stuffed Animals/Sleeping Buddies
A stuffed animal or small stuffed character to be used as a comfort item or sleeping buddy can make transition a little less scary.
Personal Water Bottles
A personal water bottle for each child can give each child belonging well beyond the practicality of nourishment.
If you think these simple items are something you could help provide for kids? Locate you local DCFS {Department of Children and Family Services office}, the local CALL {Children of AR Loved for a Lifetime}, or foster families you know personal and I'm sure they would love your support! Thanks for your interest in aiding children who are orphaned, even if for just a while. Thanks for learning more and can't wait to hear if you have stories of being someone's FFSS {Friends and Family Support System}. It really does take a village!
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