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May 18, 2012
by Jules
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Some Days, You Just Need a Little Perspective {5min Fridays}

On Fridays over here a group of people who love to throw caution to the wind and just write gather to share what five minutes buys them. Just five minutes. Unscripted. Unedited. Real.

Your words. This shared feast.

If you have five minutes, we have a writing challenge <—click to tweet this!

1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking 2. Link back at the gypsy mamma and invite others to join in. 3. Please visit the person who linked up before you & encourage them in their comments.

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Prospective…

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Many of you know that Sunday is our last day in our current position as youth minister at Central Baptist Church. {sniff sniff} We are transitioning into Church planting. We will be planting in Vilonia, AR, which is about 1.5 hours away from here, White Hall, AR. Already understanding why I need some perspective??? Yeah, but with this transition come less fear about what God has for us there and more emotions during this transition like most would guess. I trust where we’re going and what God has for us.

Some days I just want to cry because there are so many hurtful people in our current church. They don’t understand God’s grand plan. They treat church like a country club. They pay their dues {“tithes”} and expect everyone who attends to do so as well. They also the expect ”dress code” and ”quality service” that meets their expectations. They will complain until they are up to par.

It’s so sad; these people will say to your face {and worse behind your back}, “I know what you’re trying to teach us. To be disciples and make disciples. We’re just not what we’re looking for.” They don’t see a single problem with that statement. They hate us for attempting to teach this and not producing more country club youth group.  They’ve even tried to chump up charges to get us fired because of it.

REALLY people? Be disciples and make disciples is what the JESUS tells us to do in the BIBLE. How could this not be what your looking for? Rrrrr

Other days I’m just so gitty that we are heading out on this new adventure. I can’t wait to sell our house here even though I love it and am so sad to give it up. I can’t wait to find a new one. I want to “house hunt” with all my friends but then I realize…they’re not going. They’re staying here and feel abandoned. I can’t be excited with them or even around them. They’re hurting. I’ve already been excited with my husband. Who else can I tell? {other than God}

This life in limbo is making me feel…bipolar. Up. Down. All over!

Some days, I just need a little perspective. Perspective that shows me where I am NOW. Not what I’ve been through or what’s coming. I need to see just today.

Today God gave us roof-top water fun out on our patio. This is where I am Today. These are the people who love me. These are the people are the ones who have been where I’ve been. Through what I’ve been through. These are the people going with me on this new adventure. The ones I can talk to about the transition. These are the people I’m with today.

Thank you, God for the prospective!

STOP {15min past…}

 NOTE: I always feel like I need to write a follow-up post to these 5 min Friday posts…this is just what came out during those 5 minutes. I tried to cut myself off. Obviously didn’t get to tell more about perspective. This actually went a direction I didn’t intend.

I mainly found peace today amidst a really hard transition. The past several months have been up and down. I haven’t felt like I could talk freely {on here}. Maybe in the next month I can share more. THANKS for tha love’n!

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May 17, 2012
by Jules
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Graduation Cupcakes {Thoughtful Thursday}

Today is thoughtful Thursday so feel free to share ANY helpful hint! Have a fun recipe? A tool you love? Please share by linking up below {linky messed up so add them in the comment section} and then posting the “Thoughtful Thursday” button to your post so other ladies can get lots of thoughtful helps! I know I’ve been sharing a lot of recipes lately but ANYthing thoughtful is welcome! Consider visiting the link above yours and encouraging them through comments!

So last night at our last Relentless we celebrated {graduation, summer, and God’s new adventures} with a mini party. I didn’t think I was going to get to my post today but I did!!! So, today I wanna show you how I made these: Graduation Cap Cupcakes!!!

I also made these for the graduation party at the last-minute! Edible Diplomas!

Table layout: SIMPLE! {the high school colors are black and red}

Do you have any fun graduation themed party treat ideas? Please Share!!!

 

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last night

May 17, 2012
by Jules
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Emotional Week(s) in the Limbo Part of this Adventure

These last few weeks {especially THIS week being our last} here at Central have gotten crazy full. Last night was our last night with our Relentless Students. I am filled with …emotions. All kinds of emotions. Sadness, heaviness, excitement. So much that I can’t even identify all of them. Can’t decide what I’m feeling, what I should be feeling, or when I should feel it. I’m just little overwhelmed.
Here is a picture of our last night {potentially Ever}, as youth ministers. These are just a few of the awesome students we’ve built relationships with over the past 2 years and have come to love.

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how to make PS C @ home

May 15, 2012
by Jules
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How-To Make Preschool “Centers” at HOME

Remember you own preK or kindergarten?

I sure do! As a kindergartener I remember hours of fun; moving from one area of the room to the next. Feeling like a grown up being able to find exactly what I needed, being able to put it away on my own, having freedom to travel the room choosing what to do.

Have any of you ever worked at a preschool? Visited a daycare?

I have worked in several as a work-study job and in many others as a substitute teacher. While studying in college to earn my Psychology degree I remember going back and forth between class and subbing. It was amazing to see the things I was learning in class in a tangible way as I watched the children. “Centers” help hone in their creativity. Simplifies so while still having choices they are not overwhelmed. Simple organization goes a long way in making them feel secure and not scattered like their toys. Here are the centers we have INside:

Manipulative Center

We currently have lots of different manipulative: Puzzles, baby toy manipulative, Playdough, etc. These toys and tools enhance children’s fine motor skills and helps strengthen their hands, helps with eye-hand coördination, helps improve their writing skills.

 

Art Center

The art and Playdough supplies are on the top shelves because I don’t yet allow my kids to do these things without supervision or at least permission. We do these while the “baby” is napping. There are infinite numbers of how this center developes creativity in children as well as motor skills through working with the Playdough, steering scissors, maneuvering glue, paper and other supplies, and yelling writing utensils.

Music Center

We currently have lots of different instruments that all fit on this shelf {minus the large piano} including record player, piano, 2 microphones, bongos, radio, and 5 maracas. This center may seem like a pointless reason to have unbearable noise but music can “enhance the intellectual development of children, stimulate brain function, and produce gains in test scores.” (1)

Block Center

We currently have a set of large Lego blocks {multi colored} and a small set of Jinja blocks {light wooden brown}. These are great for all ages. Just some of the possibilities for learning are: construction, transformation, measurement, spatial relationships, classification. It can even built language skill when they are asked to tell about their creation.

Board Game Center

We currently have LOTS of board games. This shelf only contains the building, matching, and simple games they can do on their own.

Little People Center

We currently have a set a basket of people, a basket of animals, and a few vehicles for the Little People. This center is similar to the dramatic play center but has smaller ‘dolls’ to play with works as a 3rd person play, pretending what someone else is doing rather than yourself. We often add empty boxes to this play as furniture, buildings, etc.

Vehicle Center

We currently have this center divided into trucks/trains and cars/buses just because we have so many. Our favorite thing to do with our vehicles is

Dramatic Play Center

Currently we have a large kitchen set with tons of food play {lots of variety}. We also have a ‘dress up’ corner, baby shelf, and lots of baby accessories throughout the playroom. This provides the opportunity for learning rolls for later in life: Parenting, cooking, home maintenance, cleaning, and endless number of other career options that can rotate in and out of this long-term center.

 

Reading Center

We currently have a single book shelf that houses all of our children’s book {except a small basket of “bed time” books and Bibles in the girls bedroom}. I have them sorted according to age-appropriate by height {unfortunately my ~18 month old can almost reach the top shelf}. I have the baby books {ie board books with mainly pictures} on the bottom shelf accessible to all ages but most enticing to the youngest {shortest}. THe middle shelf has more board books that contain more words {needing longer attention span} and are reachable by all kids. The top shelf has ”real page” books/paper back books as well as books with pop-ups, or pieces that would be better read by an older child or with help. Having access to books builds a love for reading. They feel more like toys or privilege and not an assignment or chore. This center developes a love of words, encourages motor skills, thinking skills, reading comprehension, as well as the ability to sit still building on attention span. “The number of words one knows as well as the depth of understanding of those words is related to the ability to think.

I couldn’t find a simple way to summarize the importance of reading so I’ve added links to some articles about reading at an early age:
10 Reasons Why You Should Read to Your Kids
What is the importance of reading to a child?
Another article on Ten {more} Important Reasons to Read to Your Child

That may sound complicated but we basically group like things together to help my children know where to find things, where to put them away, and makes it easier to have them play with few things at once cutting down on mass chaos in the playroom.

Do you have a toy “system” that works for you? Please share!!!

Another great read is by over at HC, My Toy System That Keeps Itself Clean!

Citations
(1) Rausher, 1995 via Isbell & Raines “Creativity and the Arts with Young Children 2nd edition

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May 14, 2012
by Jules
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Advertising Your FSBO Home {5 Major Tips}

The key selling your home yourself is Advertising, Advertising, Advertising! A realtor once told me, while showing me a house, “The main thing people pay for realtors to do is advertise their home.” So if we learn to advertise our home and consider it a job then hopefully it will pay off!

{photo credit modified by Jules}

The other day I told you How to Stage Your Home for Sale. That needs to be done before any advertise can take place. You’re going to want people driving by wondering why your home suddenly has so much curb appeal. You will want your rooms to be clean, de-cluttered, and be ready to show before you take any pictures. If you’re looking for a quick sale then you must be ready to show your home the day after you advertise it’s on the market!

Check out what I’ve boiled all my researching down to at The Homemaker’s Challenge!

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